❝ Last night I wept in a way I haven’t wept for some time. I wept until I aged myself. I watched it happen in the mirror. I watched the lines arrive around my eyes like engraved sunbursts; it was like watching flowers open in time-lapse on a windowsill. The tears not only aged my face, they also changed its texture, turned the skin of my cheeks into putty. I recognized this as a rite of decadence, but I did not know how to stop it.
— Maggie Nelson, Bluets (34)
(Source: uchinaguchi)
the other day i was talking to a friend and he told me that when he first talks to a girl it’s bc he’s attracted to her but when they can have a good conversation and connect (not romantically/flirty just like a person talks to another person) he doesn’t care about getting with her anymore he’d rather just be friends with her
and i was like um isn’t that the friendzone i’ve heard people say that you shouldn’t reveal too much/be mysterious and shit to keep someone attracted to you and he was like how is that the friendzone, i just don’t want to be with the girl anymore
I’M TALKING ABOUT THE GIRL BEING I NTHE FRIENDZONE why do people think the friendzone is only for boys i dont understand
